The real-life disaster simulation training based on virtual simulation technology for the participants plays an important role in the optimization of aviation rescue command structure, staff training, and the practical applications of tactical methods. In this paper, we propose MPSS model based on the discrete event modeling for setting up the collaboration training points in the aviation emergency management. The virtual simulation of aviation emergency management is conducted based on the VOS and the performance of the crews in the collaborative training is assessed comprehensively by using READ method, forming a complete process of “mission modeling-mission training- training assessment”. A helicopter forest fire fighting mission was built based on the aviation emergency management virtual simulation collaboration training system verified the feasibility of the methods. It is proved that the collaboration training techniques can assist in rescuer training and improving the capability of participants in aviation emergency management.